Healing After A Breakup


A relationship breakup or Breakup as it implies is the termination of an intimate relationship by any means other than death. The act is commonly termed (Letting go of someone or something, not minding the value they pose) especially when it is initiated by one partner. A breakup is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave than risk hurting yourself trying to pick up all of the broken pieces. In some cases, it’s better to pick up the broken glasses than for you to regret later because those broken glasses are the missing puzzle in one’s life.

Breaking up with someone you love is not easy at all but letting go of the person you love after accumulating treasured memories of the moments you shared together can make you feel like tearing yourself in two, the positive side of breakups is that it helps you to move on and become stronger, it also gives you an opportunity to learn more about yourself as you heal your broken heart. It is often said that if someone makes you miserable more than they make you happy, then it is time to let them go, no matter how much you love or cherish them.

Below are some tips to help you move on;

  1. Don’t rush into another relationship right away: If you think rushing into another relationship will help you forget your heartbreak, then you are deceiving yourself. It’s best for you to heal first and forget about the past before going into a new relationship.
  2. Associate with positive friends: It’s advisable to always move out with people that will influence you positively not people that will influence you negatively. Staying alone will not help either; it will only make you wallow in pains.
  3. Get rid of anything that reminds you of the pain: It’s better for you to destroy anything that will remind you of the hurt you feel in the heart (there are different sides to this idea and assertion).
    If someone does not care about losing you, then move on. There are many people out there that would die if it meant losing you. Don’t cry when the sun is gone because the tears won’t let you see the stars.

Have it at the back of your mind that you are not made for each other, that the right person will come soon. Be optimistic that you will have the best person in your life. However, stay focus and be guided by faith and don’t lose hope because they are dependent on love with great insight.
‘’There are three things that last: FAITH, HOPE, AND LOVE. The greatest of this is LOVE’’



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